I found it very rewarding to reflect on being "dead",
and that it has a lot to do with being alive. Becoming part of
the dead runners society has changed my views in many ways - carpe
diem, carpe viam, carpe chocolate, carpe fun, carpe doing good
things - as long as you can, before the maggots get to you. Here
is how this Dia de los Muertos page got started. Francisco posted:
"Hola mis muertitos!
Just a reminder that el Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) is
coming soon. November 2nd is the official drs holiday and some
of us have made a tradition of dedicating the Nov. 2 run to our
dear departed. Some of us run in a cemetery. We all try to include
a quiet thought on drs and what it means to our running and to
our lives.
As usual, I will be busy putting up an Altar de los Muertos. and
as usual I will not be able to run in a cemetery, since they are
quite crowded that day, which is a *big* holiday here in Mexico."
Then he added:
"Hola mis muertitos,
The other day I was talking with my brother Pepe, a painter, about
drs and how great it would be to design a t-shirt with a mexican
Dia de los Muertos motif.
The other day, he faxed me a line drawing of a running skeleton
with the initials s.c.m. in the bottom(s.c.m. is short for La
Sociedad de los Corredores Muertos or Dead Runners Society).
I can scan the drawing and send it to the proper ftp god/godess
so that it can be downloaded by those interested."
- and here it is:
To get the full picture, click on this thumbnail. Using anonymous
ftp you can also download this graphic in a range of formats from
my server at caspar.bgsu.edu. It is in the directory /muerto
Here he explains some more on the way the holiday is celebrated:
"El Dia de los Muertos, contrary to superficial beliefs,
is a complex celebration where death is seen as life under different
assumptions :-) You gather at a relative`s house, you put up an
altar, you decorate it with flores de muerto (marigold), you add
the photos of your dear departed and you put some foodstuffs and
beverages that the dead used to like. The children take the petals
out of some flores de muerto and they trace a trail from the door
of the house to the sidewalk so that the souls of your dead can
find their way to the altar (and the food, and the booze), so
they can have a party in the night between Nov. 1 and Nov. 2.
On Nov 2 proper, the family (the living that is), have big meal
with what is left of the food (and the booze). Everyone comments
that flavor has been lost because of the virtual feast of the
dead (The substance is gone, we say). The whole affair is festive,
and everyone speaks of the dead as if they were still alive. You
remember, you re-live, you enjoy. I love the proceedings.
Well, must go now. Un abrazo, Francisco"
Annie C. Wynn explains more on what we deads do on Day of the
Dead
A few years ago, a couple of our Mexican dead runners told us
of the El Dia de los Muertos ("Day of the Dead") celebrations
in Mexico. On that day, families gather to decorate the graves
of their beloved and, in homes, they set up altars with pictures
of deceased family and friends. This is their way both remembering
and celebrating their lives and keeping their memories and their
stories alive for another year.
Each year since then, more than a few dead runners have celebrated
their own Day of the Dead by running through (or near, if the
authorities object) cemetaries and posting their thoughts to the
list.
This year, I'm proposing a new wrinkle to our virtual celebration
of a day most suited to us, the Dead Runners Society. From now
until the actual Day of the Dead, November 2, please take a few
minutes to share your memories of a loved one you will be keeping
in your thoughts on that day. I know from reading posts that this
has been a hard year for some of us on the list, and I daresay
there are few to none of us who won't have someone we will remember
on the Day of the Dead.
On the Day of the Dead, each of us will run at different times,
different distances, on different continents, but in our hearts
we will all be running together, keeping in our hearts the names
and the stories we have shared this week.
On the same thread Jim Pucket sez:
"Yeah, we're Dead Runners - and that has nothing more to
do with the Day of the Dead than a chance similarity of names.
Our whole attitude and outlook is a very LIVING thing - the phrase
that comes to mind is one from the movie, from which we DO take
our name -
"To suck the marrow from the bones of life."
But now I live near a cemetary, and I've decided to do the DdlM
Cemetary Run, as a Dead Runner.
NOT because being Dead has anything to do with being "dead",
but because being Dead has something to do with being ALIVE, and
it pays to reflect on that.
I heard someone this morning say "I always had a fear of
death, and then somebody pointed out that even if I was immortal,
I'd be miserable." I understand that thought. At the same
time, it sometimes seems that I need to realize that things will
go in order to appreciate them.
In order to wholly grasp Life, I have to be ready to accept its
termination.
And so I prepare to run through the cemetary - like any 20th century
middle aged male, I am aware that the frost is on the pumpkin.
I've seen the wrinkles and the gray hair showing up, and I think
it's time to stand on a mountain and proclaim my life. To make
my decisions, dream my dreams - and to see, in the rows of white
stone testaments, that all of this will pass and be as nothing.
"Only in a hut built for the moment can one live without
fear." The cemetary reminds me that my body is a hut built
for the moment. All that I can do to extend that moment can be
shot down in a single car wreck, a dreaded diagnosis, an angry
gunshot.
Carpe viam. Carpe diem.
Carpe the eternal Instant, by meditating on Eternity.
just one more mile,
jim p."
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